Pursuing the Excellent Life

Ideas, values, and living life well

Dec. 14, 2022

Conflict Management

Effectively managing conflict isn’t always easy, but it’s always important. In this article, I share four useful approaches for managing conflict, and how to choose the right approach for any situation. I also provide some general tips o…

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Dec. 13, 2022

Causes and Consequences of Conflict

If you interact with other people, and who doesn’t, at some point, you’ll encounter conflict. In this article, I help you understand how conflict comes about, how some conflict is good and some is bad, and what the consequences of confli…

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Nov. 25, 2022

Incivility and Collective Flourishing

  In this Live Well and Flourish article, I wrap up a three-post series on the relationship between incivility and flourishing by talking about how incivility harms not only your individual flourishing, but also our collective flourishing as a…

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Nov. 21, 2022

Incivility and Flourishing

  In the last Live Well and Flourish article, I discussed an incident of considerable incivility I witnessed recently, and talked about how incivility is fruitless. In this article I focus on how incivility in many ways is the opposite of flou…

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Nov. 18, 2022

The Futility of Incivility

  Recently, I observed a mighty Twitter battle between monsters and snowflakes … a mighty pointless battle. Something happened, one group claimed that there were monsters in their midst, and another group mocked the first group for bein…

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Nov. 14, 2022

Dealing with Moral Dilemmas

You’re going to face moral dilemmas. They’re inevitable and they’re hard to deal with. In this Live Well and Flourish article, practical philosopher Dr. Andrea Christelle and Dr. Craig Van Slyke share insights on how to deal with m…

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Nov. 11, 2022

Moral Dilemmas

Sometimes life brings us a decision for which there is no clear moral choice. In this article, practical philosopher Dr. Andrea Christelle, co-founder of Sedona Philosophy Experience and Dr. Craig Van Slyke discuss moral dilemmas -- what makes them …

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Nov. 2, 2022

COVID and Me

  Well, I finally got COVID, or should I say COVID finally got me. In this article, I discuss some things I learned from my thankfully brief bout with COVID.   Despite being fully vaccinated and trying to be reasonably careful, COVID fi…

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July 30, 2022

In Times of Trouble - Understanding Control to Deal with Adversity

  In this article I talk about how you can deal with difficult times by understanding Stoicism’s main tenet, that some things are in your control, and other things are not. Also, I relate a very personal story of a challenging time in th…

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July 6, 2022

Taking Control Of Your Life

Humans are hardwired with a desire for control. In fact, one well-established view contends that the desire for control is the basic motivation for all other motives, emotions, cognitions, and social behaviors. We evolved to derive benefits from a s…

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