April 15, 2025

Hope Amidst the Struggle: Taking Control of Your Mental Well-Being

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Hope Amidst the Struggle: Taking Control of Your Mental Well-Being

The episode addresses the pressing issue of a mental health epidemic, a phenomenon that appears to be pervasive across various demographics within our society. Craig Van Slyke articulates the alarming statistics that indicate a significant rise in mental health challenges, with adult mental illness rates escalating from 19.1% in 2018 to 23.1% by 2022. Through a candid examination of daily conversations and observed trends, we delve into the underlying factors contributing to this crisis, including a growing sense of uncertainty about the future. Importantly, the discussion emphasizes that, despite the daunting nature of these challenges, there exists an avenue for hope and improvement through actionable steps, such as seeking professional help and fostering self-compassion. By acknowledging these mental health struggles and taking proactive measures, we position ourselves not merely to cope, but to flourish in our lives.

The current landscape of mental health is fraught with alarming statistics and a growing sense of urgency. The data reveals that mental illness among adults in the United States has increased markedly, with 23.1% of adults, equating to 59.3 million individuals, grappling with some form of mental health issue as of 2022. This trend is not confined to a specific demographic; it spans various age groups, genders, and socioeconomic backgrounds, suggesting a widespread societal concern that warrants immediate attention. Throughout the discourse, I reflect on my observations of the shifting attitudes towards mental health, noting a growing willingness among individuals to discuss their struggles and seek help. This shift, while positive, does not diminish the gravity of the situation, as the underlying causes of mental distress seem to be more prevalent than ever.

Amidst these troubling trends, I strive to offer listeners a sense of empowerment and hope. I delineate several pragmatic steps that individuals can take to enhance their mental health, emphasizing that the journey towards recovery is attainable, albeit requiring effort and persistence. The importance of seeking professional help is paramount; I assert that asking for assistance is a courageous step towards reclaiming one's mental well-being. In addition to professional help, I advocate for the cultivation of self-kindness and empathy, as these attributes can significantly mitigate feelings of inadequacy and hopelessness that often accompany mental health challenges. By embracing the idea that it is acceptable to seek help and to be gentle with oneself during difficult times, we can foster a supportive community that prioritizes mental health.


The conversation culminates in a call to action, urging individuals to not only acknowledge their struggles but also to take proactive measures to address them. I share valuable resources, such as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline and other helplines, underscoring the importance of reaching out for support when needed. Mental health is an integral facet of a flourishing life, and I stress that by addressing these challenges head-on, we can lay a foundation for a more fulfilling existence, characterized by strong relationships and meaningful pursuits. The nexus between mental health and overall well-being cannot be overstated; thus, I implore listeners to prioritize their mental health and pursue the steps necessary for improvement.

Takeaways:

  • The current societal discourse reveals troubling trends in mental health, warranting our urgent attention.
  • Statistics indicate a significant rise in mental health issues, affecting millions across diverse demographics.
  • Recognizing the importance of seeking help is paramount; it is a courageous act towards self-improvement.
  • Taking control of one's mental health involves acknowledging struggles and actively pursuing appropriate resources.
  • Individual and collective actions can lead to meaningful improvements in mental well-being, fostering resilience.
  • Empathy towards oneself and others is essential in mitigating the negative impacts of mental health challenges.


Resources

  • The 988 Lifeline is like 911 for mental health. Calling 988 will connect the caller with one of 200 crisis centers who are ready to provide help.
  • The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration operates a national helpline, call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) to speak directly with a counselor.
  • The American Psychological Association has a directory of crisis hotlines and resources, go to apa.org/topics/crisis-hotlines


00:00 - None

00:10 - Exploring Mental Health: Understanding the Epidemic

01:11 - The Rising Mental Health Crisis

02:38 - Navigating Mental Health in Modern Times

05:26 - Resources for Mental Health Support

06:33 - Mental Health Resources and Support

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Are we experiencing a mental health epidemic?

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The statistics are concerning, but even more telling are the conversations happening in our daily lives.

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In this episode, I'll explore what's really going on with mental health in our society and more importantly, what we can do about it.

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Whether you're struggling yourself or know someone who is, you'll learn why there's always hope and how taking action, even small steps, can lead to real improvement.

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This is a quick post production note.

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If you know of anybody that's having any mental health issues, make sure you check out the resources that are in the show notes.

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I talk about them right at the end of the episode.

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Thanks.

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Welcome to Live well and Flourish, where I help you understand what it means to live a flourishing life.

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I'm your host, Craig Van Slyke.

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If you're ready to think beyond material.

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And external success, if you're ready to.

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Take control of who you are and the kind of life you live, if you're ready to flourish, this is the podcast for you.

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Something concerning is happening with mental health in our society.

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More and more people seem to be struggling, and I'm noticing it in my daily interactions.

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The signs are everywhere, from casual conversations to formal surveys.

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In 2018, 19.1% of U.S.

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adults, that's 46.7 million people, suffered from a mental illness.

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By 2022, the percentage had shot up to 23.1%.

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That's 59.3 million people.

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That is not a healthy trend.

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In my conversations with people, the signs of mental health struggles range from subtle hints to direct discussions.

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What's particularly striking is how these challenges cut across all demographics.

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Age, gender, income levels and social backgrounds.

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Frankly, I'm not sure what to think about all of this.

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Maybe I'm just more aware, but I think something important is going on.

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This seems to be a shared human experience that cuts across all boundaries.

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There are a couple of ways to interpret this situation.

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Maybe we're not really experiencing more mental health challenges.

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People are just more open to discussing them and getting professional help.

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And that's certainly part of the story and it's a positive development.

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But I think something deeper is going on.

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I've observed a growing sense of uncertainty about the future, especially lately.

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Although many of the young professionals and students I work with are still optimistic and enthusiastic about their futures, others seem to be struggling with a loss of hope and direction.

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They just seem to be kind of lost and unsure of how to think about their place in the world.

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Given these concerning trends, what can we do?

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While the scope of the problem might seem overwhelming.

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There are some concrete steps we can take, both individually and collectively, that may help.

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If you or someone you know is in poor mental health, the first thing to do is to realize that despite how things may seem, the situation is not hopeless.

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Mental health can be improved.

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Yeah, this can take a lot of work and time, but in all but some very rare cases, mental health problems are treatable.

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Second, seek help.

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Even though therapy, thankfully, is no longer carrying the same stigma it used to, many people are still reluctant to ask for help.

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Say it with me, it's okay to ask for help.

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In fact, it's more than okay.

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It's a courageous act of taking control to improve your well being.

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As I've discussed before, taking control is a sure way to reduce anxiety, stress and feelings of hopelessness.

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Even small steps can add up to big improvements.

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Finally, be kind and empathetic not only to others, but to yourself.

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One factor that can start a downward mental health spiral is a feeling that you ought to be able to snap out of whatever you're experiencing without any help.

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This leaves you frustrated and feeling inadequate, which further degrades your mental health.

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It's a bad situation, one that's all too common.

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Here's my final point.

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Asking for help is taking control.

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When you ask for help, you're taking a positive step towards improving your mental health.

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If that's not taking control, then I don't know what is.

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Remember, taking care of your mental health isn't just about avoiding problems.

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It's an essential part of living well and flourishing.

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When you're mentally healthy, you're better able to pursue meaningful goals, maintain strong relationships, and contribute positively to our communities.

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By acknowledging mental health challenges and taking active steps to address them, you're not just solving problems, you're you're creating the foundation for a life of purpose and fulfillment.

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If you or someone you know is suffering a mental health crisis, here are a few resources that might help.

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These are going to be in the Show Notes.

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Show notes are available at livewellandflourish.com the 988 Lifeline is kind of like 911 for mental health.

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Calling 988 will connect the caller with one of 200 crisis centers who are ready and able to provide help.

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The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration operates a national helpline called 1-800-662-HELP.

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That's 1-800-662-4357.

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When you call that number, you can speak directly with a counselor.

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And finally, the American Psychological association has a directory of crisis hotlines and resources this is a long one.

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Sorry.

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Go to apa.org topics crisis hotlines again.

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There'll be a link in the show notes before closing.

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I want to urge anyone who's having mental health issues, even just increased stress in your life, to do something about it.

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One of the best things you can do, and I know I've said this before, is, is to get help.

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Reach out to a professional or reach out to a friend.

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So if you or someone you know is having even small mental health issues, please seek help or encourage them to seek help.

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Until next time, stay well, my friends.